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Beau February 27th, 2010
The thaw has begun. At least here in Missouri… and although the nights have been in the 20’s, the daytime temperatures are warming up nicely. I’m so thankful for the handful of sunny days we’re having. Especially reading of the snow and storms some of you are seeing in the northeast. Hang in there! Spring is on the way!
The pond is thawing from a lengthy winter freeze. The last time the water was fully open was late December or early January.
I wandered outside in the middle of the night a couple days ago (I prowl around at night…), and the moon was shining half full in the sky, contrasting with tons of stars. It was cold, but so refreshing and beautiful, and I’m almost positive that I heard a few frogs calling! Which is quite remarkable considering it was way below freezing. But since the daytime temps had warmed up it may have brought a few out already.
The first really nice day we get will bring out tons of little Spring Peepers… and I always enjoy hearing them. It just speaks of spring to me. Their calls reach their peak around the middle of March in our area. I posted a short video here with spring peeper’s calling almost two years ago…
I’m ready, and it’s nearly time for onions, potatoes, peas and more. Time to get the inside chores and projects finished up!
Beau January 24th, 2010
It’s been a long, wet, soggy, foggy week. A short stay with the flu (always seems longer than it is) and I missed most of it, but learned once again the value of soup and a light diet! Haven’t been sick in at least a year, and this one snuck up quick one night and stayed for a few days. Of course now my appetite is making up for it…
Lots of rain though, and the ground is really saturated. Hopefully we won’t see the wind storms we do at times, because that’s when trees tend to blow over. The birds don’t seem to mind the water though. Instead of our typical wild birds at the feeders, a host of Mourning Doves showed up early one day to enjoy a breakfast banquet with friends.
I haven’t seen this many before- there were nearly twenty-five at one point and they’re pretty skittish. The least movement or sound and they fly off in complete abandon, nearly in all directions and some thumping on the windows of the house. Most the year I hardly see them at all, and they hide and roost in the forest pretty effectively.
Doves are “in season” from about the first of September through early November here in Missouri. They’re hunted pretty hard in the farm areas, and are not easy targets. They fly incredibly fast, and are not easy to find. Usually a dove hunter sets up near a field where they’ll feed early in the morning or late in the afternoon. It’s not too far off for an average hunter to go through a box of shells and only take a few doves home. Yes- they’re pretty little as far as birds go, but they sure do make for a fine meal when prepared right. They’re not like chicken, but more like a lean dark-meat bird like duck, and more tender. I sure enjoy seeing them come to the feeders in winter though, and glad they can find what they need.
I didn’t get out much this year to help stock the freezer with wild game. I hope to do better next year because we are really blessed in Missouri with plentiful wildlife to help with food stores and costs. Not to mention the fishing! If one wanted to stock a freezer full of panfish it wouldn’t be very difficult. Instead most of us purchase expensive salmon or roughy or tilapia… Just our culture these days, and the pace of life.
One of my boyhood friends loves to fish, but doesn’t have much time anymore. When he’s asked now if he enjoys fishing, he says “You bet!” and then describes in glorious detail how he “goes fishing” and finds the diversity of the seafood section at his favorite grocery store.
I take for granted the fish we have right in our own pond. Always like the thought that they’re there if we need them, but we don’t eat them very often. Maybe this year it’ll be different… we’ll see.
The ice on the pond is almost gone now. I wonder if we’ll see really cold weather again this winter? I don’t know about you, but a little sun would be nice… :)
Beau December 24th, 2009
A scary thing happened today. We took the day to head to the big city and tour a few fun places. One of which offers kids a chance to climb, crawl and explore among inumerable manmade caves, walkways, ladders, staircases and other creative devices. It’s actually built throughout an old shoe factory, and is an amazingly fun place to visit. You may know it, and I won’t name it because that’s not the point or my focus.
While exploring the wonders of this place, we were deep inside trying to dodge dozens of other kids and adults, and to keep up with our own. Some of the tunnels, crevices and walkways were only big enough for small kids to get through. Most of the adults had to find less claustrophobic ways to keep up.
To say that it was confusing at times is an understatement, but we found out how quickly our lives could change. I was coming around a dark corner, emerging into a small open area with a spiral of conveyor bars reaching what seemed to be a hundred feet high…
Looking up at the climbing spirals
If you looked the other way, there was an opening that dropped for at least sixty to eighty feet straight to the bottom rocky area below. I took this all in as I walked around the corner, marveling at the imagination it took to build it all. And then I saw him.
As I looked up I saw that the boy, about ten feet above us, was climbing on top of the spiral ladder with a great big smile on his face, asking me where it led. And then my heart leaped… immediately I knew something was wrong. Just a few feet away, the bars dropped off to that hole, with nothing to hold on to. He wasn’t supposed to be there. It wasn’t a ladder but a tunnel or slide of sorts, with open bars above, even though it looked like a lot of the other climbing areas.
Yet he had climbed over a waist high bar and started climbing up on top of the tunnel… I simply said “Stop” and thank God he listened. People wonder sometimes why you must teach kids to listen, and that was one of those times. I’ve talked with him before that if I ever say things like that, to really listen… he did.
I walked quickly to the spiral looking up at him and said “You’re not where your supposed to be, but just move up a bit more to your right and keep holding on carefully…” and that moved him away a little so in case he slipped he wouldn’t fall right off and I might at least have a grab at him. A million things go through your head in moments like that.
Harmless looking spiral tunnel slide, except that edge at the bottom of the picture drops off more than sixty feet below…
I muttered something else about staying there- no one else could have helped us at the time. We saw that there were only two places to get him- at the back where he would have to step down and to the right more than I wanted, or I could climb up and hold on to him, and make sure he got down safe. That was my first thought wanting to make sure I blocked his fall path, so I ran around where he got on to try and climb up myself. But as I put weight on the bars they seemed too springy for me, maybe not even able to support my weight and I didn’t want us both to tumble down. My wife liked the backside option and I agreed- it really seemed the safest thing we could do besides having him climb down himself… right along the edge. No way.
So I had him move carefully right and slightly down (just above the top of the picture) and grabbed an ankle like no tomorrow… and then we were helping lift him down (behind that picture above). It was over in a minute really, like nothing happened. He didn’t even seem to realize what the big deal was until I showed him the dropoff, and where he was. He wondered why it was so easy to get up there… (me too).
It seemed a really a poor design with a bunch of kids running around… he thought that for himself. Perhaps most folks wouldn’t have climbed over one of the bars to get there. Who knows, so much of the stuff the kids were climbing around looked similar.
All I know is that someone’s usually going to find a way to get in trouble or find a weakness with the designs of man. Today was our chance.
After a lunch break I found a manager and talked about safety. They actually had a program in place to take suggestions and try to make everything as safe as possible. We found our way to the place and I explained what happened, and what I saw as design flaws. They were amazed no one had thought of that and put a work order in immediately to modify the contraption to prevent someone else from climbing up or falling off. I felt better.
It’s amazing what can happen in a moment. It brought me back thinking about those moments where my own life and others have hung in the balance. I used to teach younger pilots to land on aircraft carriers, and while at sea to make sure aircraft got aboard safely. The difference between life and death was often mere seconds. Too many stories there, but maybe I’ll share a few sometime.
For today we went back to having fun, a little more sober for the experience, and the boy got a few more hugs than usual.
Then a funny thing happened later on, in a different sense. Well, not funny so much as fun to see. I was circling a parking lot out in an empty area at a department store. Way down one of the rows I saw a thirty-something woman pushing a cart, hurrying quickly toward a lone car far out in the lot. Then I realized she wasn’t quite hurrying, but instead was walking quickly and stepping up at the back of the cart while enjoying the rolling glide down a gentle slope. Grocery cart skating we used to call it! Her hair was blowing out gently behind her, and she had this big, amazing smile on her face, obviously finding such joy in a private moment.
As she coasted quickly to a stop at her car, I couldn’t resist driving up and rolled the window down, smiling too and simply told her it was fun to watch her enjoying the moment with the grocery cart. She laughed, a little embarrassed, but said it really was fun because she was alone and not worried about all her kids, and she probably wouldn’t have done it otherwise. We wished each other happy holidays and waved as I drove off. She was still smiling.
Two moments. One day. And I’m thankful.
May you all have a wonderful Christmas and New Year, and time enough for reflection and enjoyment for the little moments along the way.
Beau December 17th, 2009
The days have darkened early, the clouds and cold are here.
The ground is nearly frozen, and it’s the holidays we cheer.
The sky is filled with color, and the wind plays its soulful tune-
The trees are bare and the forest owl stares as if to say, “Winter’s coming soon!”
I watched an owl yesterday high on a tree branch near the pond. It stared at me, then turned around and flew down toward the base of a tree. A squirrel darted away at the last minute, and the owl changed course, flying across the pond to another tree, watching, waiting…
Beau November 4th, 2009
The leaves are falling, drifting, blowing, gathering… I love watching them drift from the trees. I’m going to make a great big leaf pile this week. One that we can get lost in… I just love the earthy smell of being buried in leaves. But the ground is too damp still… so another day or two of this glorious sunshine will make it perfect.
Great masses of leaves are also falling into the pond. They blow up and down from east to west with the wind, and gather in bunches. After a really windy day they seem to disappear, sinking to the depths to become part of the submerged detritus, slowly decomposing, and furnishing homes to frogs, turtles and other critters. I’m always amazed that the pond doesn’t fill up with the leaves!
This week is a scramble to enjoy the weather while finishing projects. Today I’m finishing digging and pouring a footer for the retaining wall for the shed, and with luck may actually start building it by this weekend. At the rate I’m going, I may be able to use it by New Year’s. A forthcoming post: “Seasons of Memories: You Too Can Build a Shed in Three Months!”
Beau October 10th, 2009
Mr. Weatherman, I watched you last night and you didn’t mention frost! Our average is mid-October, so this is close enough to be sure. But we’ve never seen frost so early, and the forecast had temps around 38-40 F. Well, we bordered 32-33 degrees this morning, with frost all around. Thankfully the ground was still warm enough in many areas to protect a few plants, but our car mirror and windows were covered in icy-frozen water drops. It’s too early!
I see that tonight’s forecast has changed, with the low around 29 degrees F. That means we need to move and cover a few plants, and say goodbye to the beans, cucumbers, tomatoes and squash. Harumph! I hoped for a couple more weeks of fresh veggies…
We did awake to sunshine as a bright welcome after so much rain. It’s going to be a beautiful, busy day!
Beau September 24th, 2009
A steady, gentle rain today, and gives one time to catch up on a few things. I want to take a minute to thank everyone for visiting (and commenting) here at Fox Haven. Writing, blogging, whatever you call this form of expression…. it gives us a chance to “think out loud” perhaps, and reach out to folks in a different way. That’s not my intent per se, but I’ve really come to enjoy this little part of our world. I know there are always a lot more people browsing or lurking a bit, and I understand that very well. I tend to lurk on other blogs and sites far more than commenting too it seems.
In some ways, reading and commenting on a blog on a regular basis is like investing some part of yourself, or sharing who you are a bit as well. Is it a risk for some people? Maybe too personal? I don’t know, but I know it’s hard at times when a blog disappears for unknown reasons and we wonder where those good folks have gone. Change and a shift of focus is understandable in anyone’s life though. Sometimes we face challenges that are difficult to write about, or not shared with our readers, or we simply need a break. I wonder who could qualify as the longest writing blogger?!
Maybe we feel that we’re only showing half the picture of our real lives, or we wonder what’s the point? Honestly I don’t know that there is any point, at least for me, beyond keeping a journal of our lives and examining aspects of ourselves that perhaps could be shared later on. It doesn’t really matter- I enjoy writing and sharing pictures, and hope that others enjoy it too. When it comes right down to it, I would like to think that what most people write and share about their lives is a lot closer to who they really are. So with that, I just want you to know that you are welcome here any time, and I appreciate how many of you do take the time to come by… :)
Meanwhile, back on our weedy acreage (the weeds are stiffly standing their ground against my efforts!) I’m still mucking about pruning, cutting, planting, ripping things out and generally trying to keep ahead of nature’s efforts. If I strike a balance, then I’ll call it a victory… but there’s always something else to do. Just as with rainbows there are moments of beauty all around us though. These perennial asters get my vote for flowers of the month- they seem to get bigger every year, and the honeybees enjoy them too.
Near the house I planted a couple of Burkwood Viburnum shrubs a few years ago. They’ve finally settled in and are covered with nice red berries this year. In the spring they have the most fragrant white flower clusters- it’s really amazing, but such a sweet fragrance only blooms for a few days it seems. The birds will certainly enjoy the little fruit this winter.
Yesterday was a misty morning with dew hanging everywhere, including this spider’s web. There are so many spiders about now, their webs even gather in your hair when you least expect it!
Contrasts are always interesting, and a few days ago I stared at the walnut tree standing tall against the stormy sky. What a stark picture it made with leaves mostly gone yet the nuts still hanging on. As I looked I felt a small chill… so gray and dark! It almost seemed a portent of the coming winter. Brrr…
But then I smiled and thought, “No you don’t! Winter is months away!” remembering we have many warm days yet to come. And the garden is still growing too. We’ve got all kinds of veggies on hand, and too many cucumbers to keep up with.
Yesterday I set a bowl of mixed vegetables on the ground and the dogs ran up… Kuma, our little Shiba Inu to the right, and the namesake icon for Fox Haven (little does he know!). To his left is the protruding nose of Justin, our elderly Basset Hound. The yellow lab was standing off to the side looking like, “Me to! I want some!” but he must wait his turn. Actually I didn’t give the vegetables to the dogs, but do you see the one thing that doesn’t belong in the bowl? There were two of them… and that’s what the dogs were really after!
I love the fall season so much, even if I’m still playing catch-up around the house. I’ve let some of the hedgerows and borders grow more this year, and these deep yellow blooms of goldenrod were the result. This honeybee worked the flowers vigorously, with a red Knockout rose in the background.
The leaves on the trees have even begun turning now… with the first yellows and browns at the tops. Those of you further north must be ahead of us by now. In a few weeks we’ll see the blazing variety of colors and watch leaves sailing through the air. Almost as if to join the change of the seasons, our young one has a birthday this weekend. He’s growing up so fast. That will be an interesting conjunction as he grows older, to feel the change of the seasons of his own life, as part of the world around him too. Soon we’ll be out catching the falling leaves, and jumping in leaf piles. It’s time… Autumn is here.
Beau September 9th, 2009
Taken a couple of weeks ago in August, on a warm day and a quiet, lazy afternoon- the boy said it looked like a mirror. Still kinda like that, peaceful and calm, with cooler days now… brings me back to John Denver’s “Cool An Green An Shady”…
Those nothin’ much to do days are getting harder to find…